A moral issue, many of us will face within our life time, maybe we are  the bully, the bullied or the randomer standing in the corner; it  happens, we know of it, yet schools have a hard time stopping it.
Like I said, many of us have experienced it or is experiencing it, we  all know what happens in the school grounds at lunch & at interval,  squabbles and arguments, rumours and tales; but how much of it is true  & why does it still happen?
Well, firstly we need to understand the schools 'chain of command' as  such; popular kids being at the top, and geeks, or 'intellectuals' at  the bottom. It's cruel how we live in a world where the popular feast  upon the smart, the smart are our future, not these bullies. Although, I  am not saying for one moment all popular children at bullies, not at  all. But when was the last time the intellectuals doing the bullying,  lets be serious here.
 I could easily sit here and blame it on many things, jealously, they  know that they are the future, and they will be spending their life  cleaning out gutters (a job is a job, right?) while they are making  money doing what they love to do. I could also say that their ego is  forcing them to do, that if they do not bully, they will become the  bully when their 'friend' turn upon him/her for being 'weak'. Or, in  realism manning up for the truth and the moral.
We could also say insecurity that they feel insecure in their lives that  they must make others feel bad in order for them to feel good about  themselves, sad really.  We equally could blame it on the parents for  raising a beast; not a child.
 But, at the end of the day, we do not know what happens in the school  grounds, and that may be a good thing; but we do know this is happening  and it is really sad. If they acted like this in the 'big bad world;  they would be literally eaten alive, yet they still do in school. Can we  really stop this or has this became part of our society, that we expect  the smarter ones to have their life ruined because they listen in  class, or teased because of their test results, no, not really. They do  not. And for a lot of intellectuals, this will be the worst years of  their life.
 With the age of modern technology people are now taking to  cyber-bullying; perfectly fine for your good old cyber geek. But for  other intellectuals, not so. These people go to school & get hell;  yet they cannot escape it in the vast array that we call 'The Internet',  for some people it is a hell hole. For most, when school bullies would  come up and hit you and that would be that, you would fight and it's  over, are far gone, long gone. These people prefer to destroy their  'victims' life, slowly, emotionally and mentally. Some even try  'cyberly' now as I have said. It's a shame.
 This should not be happening, yet it is. What is our world coming to.
- By Ally Mac
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